Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, recently shared her perspective on men’s intentions in relationships and how she handles bullies.

In a teaser for the upcoming episode of ‘Flow with Korty,’ the Grammy-winning Nigerian singer expressed her belief that many men approach relationships with the primary agenda of seeking sex.

When host Korty EO asked Tems if she had ever been in love, she responded, “A lot of guys are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.”

The ‘Essence’ singer also opened up about being frequently misunderstood and bullied due to her reserved nature.

She described how people would criticize her demeanor, saying, “Everything I did seemed to annoy everybody. They would say, ‘Why are you so slow? Why are you talking so slow? Talk like you are alive.’

And I would say, ‘You are very stupid. Are you crazy?’ I was upset all the time.”

Despite these challenges, Tems found solace in her musical talent, which has become a source of strength and expression for her.